soft black woman

We are familiar with what a strong black woman archetype is defined as. She’s known for being independent, proud, and full of wisdom. She’s a no-nonsense woman who’s known to persevere through hardship. She is a superwoman often under pressure. I am her!

Matter of fact, I’ve been her soo long that I forgot my true authentic nature. The divine feminine within me began to escape me. As I’ve been intentionally working to rewire my entire life and perspective this is one area that needed the most attention. This world teaches us to be everything we are not supposed to be. This world teaches us to glorify the things that are against our highest good.

I don’t want to constantly be resilient in a way that impacts me negatively. It takes so much energy to hold everything down all the time. It’s exhausting living in my masculine energy. All because I have been conditioned to do so. The more I heal the more I recognize those hard parts of me. I also recognize how they came to be. Many are behaviors and ideas passed down from past generations in my family. Others are learned as I navigated this world through out my life.

I am declaring that I return to my true authentic self. I am in the process of learning to transmute strong into soft. I am learning to create a safe space and soft landing for myself and others. I now understand what It means to sink into my nurturing, loving, sensual energy. I no longer wish to live with my guard up and in defense mode all the time. I no longer wish to be ridged and demand things from life. Instead, I am commanding with all my grace. I am wielding my softness to attract all the beauty life has to offer me.

I am strong because I am choosing to be soft and vulnerable. I am a SOFT BLACK WOMAN.